现代男女分手的九大原因

现在的的社会不断的进步，我们也开始也懂得人权，也有权利选择恋爱对象， 相比古时候的女孩她们的终身幸福就是由父母或兄长来决定，她们没有机会通过交往去了解对方，而是直接下嫁给对方，不是要她们去了解他们的另一半，而是没有选择只有接受这段感情。再加上那是，女性没有离婚的权利，所以‘女人最怕嫁错郎’这一句说出了女人心声，而且还不是自己选的....

Now the society continues to progress, we are also beginning to understand human rights, the same goes with the right in choosing partners. Compared to women in ancient times, their marriage is determined by the parents or brother. They have no chance to know each other but direct marry each other. It's not that they don't want to understand their other half, but they have no choice but to accept this relationship....

幸运的我们生存在这个时代，但就要面对分手或离婚的痛苦。想比古时我们还是幸福的多了。现在分手或离婚在我们的社会也成为家常便饭，但许多人都不知道什么原因导致这样的剧情，经过我们的统计以下就是我们的结果。

Fortunately, we live in this era, but we have to face the pain of separation or divorce. Living in the old times is still happier than us. Nowadays, break up or divorce in our society has become a common case, but many people do not know what causes this plot. The following is our statistical results.

Top 9 Reasons Why Couples Break Up

(source: Malaysia's First Comic Portal - www.comixo.com)

1.远距离恋爱

对于现代男女来说，爱情不在乎天长地久，而在乎曾经拥有。在这个什么都讲究保鲜期的社会里，三天不见就会使男女之间产生新的化学反应，更何况是长时间的远距离恋爱。这可不是精神恋爱的年代，时间和距离对会成为爱情的一大杀手。

1.Long-distance Relationship

Modern men and women do not care about everlasting love but they care about what they had. In this nothing but preservation society, if couples do not meet up for only three days will produce a new kind of chemical reactions, then what about long-distance relationship. This is not the age of Spirit of Love, hence time and distance will become a major killer of love.

2.七年之痒

恋爱是一件很容易的事情，但是想让爱情长久的保持下去，却是一件非常困难的事情。正因为如此，才会有那么多的七年之痒让世人感慨。没有多少爱情能够经得起七年之痒的挫折，因为，爱情不会永远都在。如果当两个人没有亲情出现的时候，爱情也就消失了。

2.Seven-year Itch

Falling in love is easy, but it is very difficult to maintain. Because of this, there are many seven-year itch in this world, making people feeling regret. Not many couples can stand the seven-year itch frustration because love is not always there. If there is no affection between couples, love will disappear.

3.性格不和

如果说时间是爱情的杀手，那么两个人的相处才是真正能够决定两人能否长久的真正原因。特别是性格方面，当两个人性格有着很大的不同，或因为性格不同而发生很多的争执，并倔强到不肯让步时，爱情也会随而受伤。

3.Personality Clashes

If time is the killer of love, then two people getting along is the real reason to decide whether a couple can last forever. Especially personality, when two people have a very different character, or due to different opinions, love will get injured.

4.双方家庭纷争

当两个人决定在一起时，就不再是两个的人事情，而是两个家庭的事情。如果关系处理得不当，由家庭引起的纷争足以导致爱情短命。

4.Both Families Dispute

When two people decide to be together, there's no longer the matter between themselves but the two families. If the relationship is not handled properly, family disputes could cause short-lived love.

5.疑神疑鬼

男人最怕什么？最怕自己在外面应酬时，女人一个又一个的电话打来，他会对于女人的疑神疑鬼特别痛恨。同样的道理，对于女人来说也是如此。如果两个人相爱，没有信任，只是不停的怀疑和猜忌，那么这样的爱情只会以分开告终。

5.Paranoid

What men fear most? Most afraid of calls from women one by one when they're working outstation. They hate women's suspicious character. The same goes with women. If two people love each other, but there is no trust, only full of suspicion and mistrust, then this kind of love will only separate in the end.

6.移情别恋

说句实话，现代这个社会，谁不会因为离开谁而活不下去，谁也不会因为有了谁而就一定会一心一意。在每天和不同的人接触中，难免会遇上一个更加让自己动心的梦中情人，难免会让自己的心里产生新的想法。移情别恋，这可是身边常常上演的戏码。

6.Faithless

To be honest, in this modern society, there's no guarantee in whoever can't live after breaking up, or whoever will love somebody wholeheartedly after having someone. Daily contact with different people will inevitably produce chance in meeting someone more inviting to his dreams, and this will inevitably generate new ideas in his heart. Faithless is just a common thing between love.

7.第三者插足

另一个常常上演的戏码非第三者插足莫属。爱情是两个人的事情，当爱情里出现了第三个人的时候，这样的爱情只能够四分五裂。更要命的是，当第三者插足时，没有人能够知道到底谁能够笑到最后。基本上，最后只能够造成每个人都会受到伤害。

7.Third Party

Another drama that is often staged is none other than the third party interference. Love is between two persons, when there is a presence of a third person, this kind of love can only be fallen apart. Even worse, when the third party interferes, no one can know who will survive in the end. Basically, the final result can only hurt everyone.

8.爱情不能饮水饱

很多沉醉在爱情里的人，都会天真的以为有情饮水饱。可是，当柴米油盐酱醋茶这些生活放在眼前的时候，才知道爱情是不能够有情饮水饱的。爱情，必须建立在有一定基础的面包之上。否则，爱情到最后，不是你死，就是我亡。

8.Feeling is Everything

Many people indulge in love thought that with feelings towards each other they can last forever. However, when leading a real life they came to know that love cannot be affectionate if there is only feelings. Love, must be built on certain basis. Otherwise, love will disappear in the end.

9.只相爱不结婚

相爱不结婚，这曾经是娱乐圈里经典的剧情。但是随着社会也开始逐渐娱乐化，普通人也开始崇向不结婚的目标。如果相爱的两个人，因为一个人只想着相爱，却从未想着结婚，这样的爱情一定长久不了。毕竟，绝大多数的人还是想走进婚姻的殿堂的。

9.Love Without Marriage

Love without marriage was once a hot topic in entertainment community. But as society began to follow entertainment path, people start to aim a relationship without marriage. If two people love each other, with only a reason that he wants to be loved but never think of marriage, this kind of love cannot last long. After all, I believe most people still wish to get married.

各位，你们会不会深有同感呢？以上的哪一个是你最不能忍受的呢？

People, do you feel the same? Which reason above u find the hardest to stand?

(p/s: This article is originally in Chinese version so it is better to read in Chinese. I had tried my best to translate it into English. My apology if I did not make it clear enough.)